According to the US CDC the mean age for first vaginal sexual intercourse is 17 for both males and females. By age 23, 95% of women interviewed claimed that they’d had sexual intercourse. Meanwhile the average age of first marriage in the US is 27 for women and 29 for men. The average girl has had a full decade of fornication before she ever marries. while average men have been screwing around for a dozen years prior to marriage. We have produced a generation of emotionally used up whores, and cads who will never be able to properly value married life. These statistics should make Godly people sick and we should want to repent of the absolute wickedness of our sexually immoral generation.
What is the designed purpose of women?
Genesis 2:18 And the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet for him.”
Definition #3 for “Meet”: fulfilling, satisfying, agreeable, fit, proper
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is the man, and the head of Christ is God. 4 Every man who prayeth or prophesieth, having his head covered, dishonoreth his head. 5 But every woman who prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoreth her head, for that is one and the same as if she were shaven. 6 For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn. But if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. 7 For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, inasmuch as he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of the man. 8 For the man is not of the woman, but the woman of the man. 9 Neither was the man created for the woman, but the woman for the man.
The woman was created for the man, to be with the man, and to be a helper to the man. The man is to govern her easily misled nature, and be head over her. She is to be agreeable and proper to the man who is presently over her, and to do what is fitting and proper for her to do for him whether he is her father or husband.
How do we get women to fulfill their purpose?
It is my Biblically supported belief that women are to naturally spend their whole lives first being trained up to serve a man in their father’s house, and then to be serving her husband, as she was created for, as unto the Lord, in her husband’s home.(Ephesians 5:22-24) Girls should spend their formative years honoring their fathers and mothers who are to train them up in the way that they should go, so that they will not depart from it when they are older. Women are to be trained to serve their fathers and mothers and care for others, in preparation to serve their husbands and care for their children and others. Mothers and other older women are to be examples and teachers of good things: Titus 2:4 that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the Word of God be not blasphemed.
So, if a father and mother wanted to train their daughter up exactly like a Christian young woman should be, what would that look like? Would they send their daughter off, out from under her father’s care, to college to learn to be independent of men and to provide for herself those things that a father or husband should be providing? Should a Christian father send his easily beguiled young daughter off to college, where less than 5% emerge with their virginity still intact, just so the whore can be well prepared to dump her husband and live independently without a man, as she will learn how to do in college and afterward in her career? No. And of those 5% of girls who don’t become whores in college, a good portion of those are likely disabled, disfigured, or grotesque. Sending an attractive daughter off to where they hand out condoms and abortion pills like candy while the authority figures preach anarchy and rebellion is absolute foolishness tantamount to just pimping her out as a whore yourself, only you end up paying tuition instead of reaping the profit.
A Christian father should not “empower” his daughter, but instead teach her to expect and joyfully take guidance from her God ordained head. He should teach her to serve others by keeping her serving domestically in his own home until she is ready and invited to be a keeper of her own home with a good and Godly man whom her father should help the easily beguiled young woman to choose. And he should not give her away to a fool or a heathen. Letting a young woman marry whatever bad-boy psychopath she is infatuated with, is not fatherly love at all, but could subject her to a lifetime of painful and unnecessary drama. She should be taught from an early age to let the God ordained men in her life take care of her, and learn to take their advice. Some people are not so fortunate to have fathers and husbands to look out for them.
James 1:27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.
God tells His people many times to look out for the fatherless and widows. Because, despite Feminism’s lies to the contrary, it is truly an affliction to not have a father or for a woman to not have a husband. Churches should never neglect to take care of their fatherless and their widows in accordance with 1 Timothy 5:3-16. If your church is giving your money away to thrice divorced MILFs, they’re doing things completely wrong! So a true church of Christ’s would already provide a safety net for your daughter, should she be a worthy widow, she won’t need the four years of fornicating, away from her parents, to fall back on.
So, is it wise for Christians to squander the four peak reproductive years of most every woman’s life training them, via college, how to provide for themselves(and fornicate) just in case they should become widowed? Would it not be better that their husbands be allowed to enjoy their unspoiled youth and beauty, in return for their lifetime of care, provision, and sacrifice, that they vow to their wives? Would marriage not be a better deal for both parties if both parties gave their best? Encouraging your daughter to get a college education seems to be a sure way to drastically reduce your grandchildren, and her commitment to motherhood:
By preserving a chaste unmarried daughter serving in your home until she marries, you are not only being a good father to her, but you are preparing her to be an excellent wife.
My oldest sister went off to college when I was a first grader, and my other sister went off to college when I was a third grader, as a result I grew up without sisters and I hardly know them.
Are we teaching our daughters to serve others or to be self serving?
So if we teach our daughters to pursue their own dreams, won’t that just make her future home a reeducation-camp, if her husband has his own ambitions and wants a Godly “keeper at home”? Should we not prepare her to follow her husband’s directions? If Eve had followed her husband’s directions we might all still be living in a paradise.
Conclusion: I don’t think a Christian woman should move out of her father’s house until she marries, especially considering the absolute sexual immorality we live amongst. What do you think?